What a relief, Kara - I thought maybe the thing I read also applied here, and was starting to feel like a heel for not using my real name. Yes folks, it's true - I am not actually called Ophelia!
As for where I read it....think I followed some links from the LV Wiki, and ended up in someone else's, but I can't be sure. It sounded official, yet from appearances was completely unrelated to LV. Sorry I can't give a link at this point.
My husband and I read a story to our children (some are teens) about a girl who would chat to someone her own age who lived in another state, after school most days. As the story progressed (apparently it is true, but who knows with these things) the person she was chatting to ended up being 30 years older than her, and living in the next suburb. Using the information from their chat sessions, this man was able to eventually work out which school she went to, which sporting games she played and where and when, and which nights of the week she was home alone till after dark. Fortunately in this case the man was a policeman who was part of a taskforce posing on the net with the express purpose of warning children about potential dangers, and of catching those who are out there trying to trap unsuspecting youngsters. I am so glad I'm out of those teenage years, even if I did look so much better then!
I guess it's up to each of us to work out what we feel comfortable revealing about ourselves.
Wherefore, be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great.
And yup you do come up! Try it 
